Family & Friends

Family and friends are always welcome to visit you at any time. For reasons of safety and security, we would request that all visitors notify a member of staff and sign the ‘Visitors Book’ on arrival and departure.

We are very happy to offer beverages free of charge to your guests and, if you let us know when they are coming, we can arrange for them to have a meal with you for a small charge.

Guest Accommodation

We are very happy to be able to offer overnight accommodation to your guests. The accommodation consists of a very pleasant twin bedroom with TV and newly refurbished bathroom. There are also facilities for making light snacks and beverages.

Please enquire about availability and price.

Fairby Grange, Ash Road, Hartley, Longfield, Kent. DA3 8ER. Tel: 01474 702223

Poem – When I Wander

When I wander don’t tell me to come and sit down. Wander with me. It may be because I am hungry, thirsty, need the toilet. Or maybe I just need to stretch my legs.

When I call for my mother (even though I’m ninety!) don’t tell me she has died. Reassure me, cuddle me, ask me about her. It may be that I am looking for the security that my mother once gave me.

When I shout out please don’t ask me to be quiet…or walk by. I am trying to tell you something, but have difficulty in telling you what. Be patient. Try to find out. I may be in pain.

When I become agitated or appear angry, please don’t reach for the drugs first. I am trying to tell you something. It may be too hot, too bright, too noisy. Or maybe it’s because I miss my loved ones. Try to find out first.

When I don’t eat my dinner or drink my tea it may be because I’ve forgotten how to. Show me what to do, remind me. It may be that I just need to hold my knife and fork I may know what to do then.

When I push you away while you’re trying to help me wash or get dressed, maybe it’s because I have forgotten what you have said. Keep telling me what you are doing over and over and over. Maybe others will think you’re the one that needs the help!

With all my thoughts and maybes, perhaps it will be you who reaches my thoughts, understands my fears, and will make me feel safe. Maybe it will be you who I need to thank.

If only I knew how.